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Staying Close (Dennis Rainey)
Staying Close (Dennis Rainey)
Authors: Dennis Rainey
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【此書不一定為改革宗立場之書籍。】

孤立是什麼


  字典上會告訴你,孤立(Isolation)「是一種孤單、分離、寂寞的情況。」但我喜歡我女兒艾許莉所說的。有一次她走進書房,問我在寫什麼。
「孤立」,我解釋道︰「你知道這是什麼意思嗎?」


我那金髮藍眼、雀斑臉的十歲女兒說︰「就是別人排除你嘛!」
我也許有點偏見,但我認為艾許莉的回答是對人際關係一項深入的觀察,丈夫排除妻子,妻子排除丈夫,這正是婚姻受到孤立影響後的結果。

當你被某人排除時,你和他之間會有一種距離感,缺少真正的親密。你們可以同床共枕,同桌吃飯,一起看電視,共用一個銀行帳戶,並同時身為父母卻仍然感到孤單。你們做愛,卻沒有愛;你們交談,卻沒有溝通;你們一起生活,卻沒有分享生命。


如果還有比孤家寡人更悽慘寂寞的人,那就是一個已婚卻感到寂寞的人了。諷刺的是,沒有人是存著使兩人更形孤立的意圖而結婚的。大多數人認為婚姻是解決孤寂的良方。對他們而言,「孤單的先生,孤單的妻子」,根本和婚姻是對立的。

孤立像是一個末期病的病原體,侵入你的婚姻。一開始是慢慢地,靜悄悄地,毫無痛苦之感。等你覺察此一暗疾時,常常為時已晚。你的婚姻恐怕已因沈悶於冷漠而癱瘓,甚至已因疏於照顧而死亡。


孤立的逐漸形成,可以從一個敏銳的觀察者所謂「已婚人士感冒的七個年代」看出來。我們若逐年觀察,丈夫對妻子感冒的反應,八成會聽到︰

Major Details
  • Book Title: Staying Close
  • Authors: Dennis Rainey
  • Book Language: Traditional Chinese
  • Book Condition: New
  • Book Binding: Paperback
  • Published: 1995
Book Size
  • Pages: 318
  • Volumes: 1
  • Height: 21.00
  • Width: 14.80
  • Thickness: 1.70
  • Weight: 457
Publishing Details
  • Publisher: Chinese Campus Crusade for Christ, Taipei
  • ISBN13: 9789578972803
  • Original Title: Staying Close
  • Original Language: English
  • Original Language First Edition: 1989
  • Original Language Translated Edition: 1995


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